Good Evening Zaza,
I'm from the National Urology Society and we received your questions sent to our e-mail, and we're pleased to answer:

1) Yes, 3 inches is considered small. We recommend the surgery process;

2) No, it's not usual for the condom to be loose. There's no XS size;

3) Even if 3 inches is quite small, it is still possible that your partner has an orgazm during ♥♥♥♥♥♥ relationships, so if it doesn't happen with you as you've mentioned, the lack of competence is your responsibility;

4) No, you can't have a prostate exam, it's only for 50-year-olds or older. Please, do not insist;

5) The attraction to people of the same ♥♥♥ can be a strong sign of homosexual tendencies;

If you have any other questions, we're here to help.
Don't hesitate to get in touch with ashamedofsmalldick@impotence.com

Have a nice evening, you have nothing to be ashamed of.