anal is the best way to prevent babies. the first question i ask on the first date is "are you into anal?" if the answer is no, im gone. could be in the middle of dinner, or a walk on the beach. if they say no, i go. if they dont like anal i put on my flannel. simple as that. and oral isnt a substitution. i can do that by myself. the key is to put your biceps under your thighs and push yourself together like a waffle maker. once you get the tip you'll want to keep at it.