I have been playing video games since the mid 80's
I have ownend dozens of PC's and every console
except X-Box. I have over 300 RTS titles in my collection
mainly on disk and around 200 other games. This is my
PC collection only. My group and i often run private servers
for games like DayZ, 7 Days to die, space engineers to name
but a few.
With regards to "friend requests" I only ever accept them from people i interact with
during game play and forums. I am NOT a "collector of names" There needs to be a reason
IE to co-op in a game or making a mod. I also use Teams peak not discord as the audio quality and file sharing is WAY better and it is 100% secure and private.