Sure you don´t have to give everybody you see a huge smile, but you can make it your aim to smile more. For example you can smile more during conversation or when you look into someone elses direction and see that the person is looking at you too.
Make people feel good when they talk to you and smile. Except it is a serious talk, then it is smarter to look serious and show the person towards you that you are listening.


If you want to let people think you are an open person then you have to use the "open bodylanguage". With this you can achieve, that people want to talk more to you.
good bodylanguage for example is, if you...
1. hold your legs together and not crossed
2. don´t shamble and have a good posture
3. hold your arms to your side and not crossed

Pay attention to your environment. If you type something on your iphone, read in your book or stare at your pc people will think you have something better to do. Instead look ahead, smile and be ready for others to come to you and talk to you.

For this you don´t have to look into someones eyes permanently, just create as much eye contact as possible with others, so that they know that you care about them and they are worth your time.
For example look someone in the eyes when you go past each other and say "hello" or so and don´t look at the bottom like there is something very important happening down there

You don´t have to laugh about everything a person says, but you should laugh more in general. Especially if someone wants to be funny, says something funny or if you feel that the other person could need a bit support. Laughing gives your conversation a positive atmosphere and shows nearby people, that you are friendly.

Many people think small talk is superficial, but it isn´t! Every good friendship starts with a small talk, when you find similarities between you and your new friend. All you have to do is let the person in front of you feel comfortable and also divulge things about you. If you feel more comfortable you can also talk about more personal things, which can be very helpful to talk about, like if you talk with a therapist. But be careful if you are the only one talking. To also make the person you are talking to feel comfortable, in the next step you will learn, how to make others the topic, so that they feel more comfortable.

To make someone else feel comfortable you can make them the topic. Through this they can talk about things with you that interest them more and also tell you things you didn´t know about them. If they tell you more things about them it also means that the band between you and them gets stronger.

Compliments are a good foundation for happyness. And happyness is a good foundation for a better and more valuable life. So keep making Compliments if you see that someone else is doing good or if you see that they have a new haircut or so. But keep in mind that you should be honest with these compliments and not just say anything but don´t mean it.

If you find mistakes or think that something is missing just contact me ;D